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  • Writer's pictureNerissa Malloy

Get out of your own way!

So I am having a real talk transparent moment.

I have some goals set in place and action steps and  I have been procrastinating on taking action.

I have allowed self-doubt to dominate and let negatives thought tell me ” You cant do it like them, or you have to do it like her”. I got so caught up with these thoughts that I became paralyzed. Not physically, but in my path to success.

Have you ever felt stuck? Felt like you have no direction or clear set path? Felt like you need to make a move but you’re incapable? That was me so I did what I knew best……stay comfortable and take no action.

It happens to the best of us! The good thing is that I had a conversation with a really close friend of mine last weekend.

We talked for about 45 minutes and after that convo I felt like an idiot. She didn’t down talk me at all but made me realize how equipped I truly am and that God has placed this vision in me and therefore GET OUT OF MY OWN WAY AND DO ME!!

I could laugh at myself now for how silly I was being and how simple it was to change my thought process. Truth is , that It is so important to have great friends and counsel in your corner to help you get out of your own way. Often times we know exactly what to do but need that persons to hear us, then nudge or push  off of the ledge to get it done.

Do you have a close friend, coach or mentor that helps you to get out of your way?

I implore you to make sure that you have one if you don’t.

It saved me a lot of headache.

Until Next Time 💋


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